12 things to know for a real female orgasm

Oh yeah, the orgasm... Men and women dream about it, but it's not always easy to reach it.

This is largely true for women who, according to some studies, are between 20 and 30% not to come at every sexual intercourse against only 5% for men. Stress, depression, or medication are all factors that can explain these difficulties in reaching seventh heaven during sex.

To go deeper into the subject, consult our articles dealing with the orgasm of older female and girls orgasm from porn, and how women orgasm.

As you read on, you will discover other ways to reach this sexual grail. We think for example of orgasm by thinking or the prostatic orgasm. What is it all about? How do we go about it? In our articles, we reveal some of the secrets of pleasure. Enjoy reading them!

What are the different types of women orgasms?

1, 2, 4, 6, or 12 kinds of enjoyment? Opinions differ... We've already heard of clitoral and vaginal orgasm, but now we evoke orgasm by the thought, by the nipples, by the anus, or, even more surprisingly, by the cervix or the urethra! So, what is it really like? I tested for you.

If some people think there is only one orgasm, there are twelve in this article. Most other sources focus on the difference between vaginal and clitoral orgasms. So we needed to get this nebula in order...  I listed the thousand and one supposed orgasms, tested them, and then ranked them in order of value.

Clitoral orgasm: I'm absolutely sure it exists! It is the innate, instinctive, natural orgasm. It is obtained very easily and sometimes very quickly (some women say they have it in less than three minutes). It is of course by stimulating the clitoris that we get it. For the record, the clitoris is an organ composed of two arches and no less than 8,000 nerve endings and is, like the penis, mobile (it can double in size).

Mixed orgasm: as its name suggests, this orgasm combines two elements: clitoral and vaginal sensations. Most women describe it as deeper and more precise than the clitoral alone, and I agree with them, but all the same, it is the clitoris and its fabulous powers that lead to the final orgasm. And, although many women enjoy touching during sex, few dare to do so, because masturbation during sex is still too widespread a taboo. So go ahead, dare!

Multiple orgasms: we mentioned it in a post about dowsers (people who are able to provoke "female ejaculations"), explaining that the more different solicitations there are, the more likely it is that women will reach orgasm. This pleasure is very intense, complex, whole, it's the little dreamed death, the final bouquet of fireworks, the total pleasure! To provoke it, it is enough to multiply the zones of attention, to lick, caress, touch, suck, at the same time the mouth, the breasts, the buttocks, the sex, in short, to put the body in all its frolics.

G-spot orgasm: personally, it does not seem to me to have enjoyed by unique caresses on the G-spot... And for good reason: this pleasure would be in fact the result of indirect stimulation of the clitoris. Note however that pressure on this point (which you are reminded that it is a few centimeters from the entrance of the vagina, that you can feel it by pressing on the lower abdomen and that you can recognize it by its spongy texture) can promote female ejaculation: squirting.

Anal orgasm: Similarly, while it is undeniable that anal contact adds a lot of intensity to pleasure and that there are many nerve endings in this area, they are not enough. And although many women say that they are no longer able to come without anal stimulation, because the sensations are more intense, here again, it may be the connection with the clitoris that generates the pleasure, because the G-spot can be stimulated and, as we have seen, it is connected to the clitoris. In addition, male pleasure is increased by the narrowness of the channel and since the pleasure is communicative, it is possible that these women also enjoy by proxy.

Orgasm-kiss: if I have never come through a kiss alone, as languid as it was, I must admit that I may have been ultra-excited. I will not develop more, I let a bigger than me, Verlaine, tell you about the inescapable drunkenness that this hollyhock in the garden of caresses, or reread this article on the seven capital kisses.

Same for the nipple orgasm: even though the sensations can be very strong and immensely exciting, I do not orgasm through my breasts, at least not yet.

Sleep orgasm: if 4% of women seem to be concerned, I'm not one of them or I don't remember it

Mental orgasm: I had tested for you the enjoyment by the simple thought and I had not succeeded.

Orgasm point A or "deep spot": this new point of pleasure would be located a little further than the G-spot, also on the anterior wall of the vagina. Hence the letter A: for "Anterior Fornix Erogenous Zone". It is the indirect stimulation of the G-spot (which we have seen is itself an indirect stimulation of the clitoris) that provides pleasure.

Cervical or cervical orgasm or point C: as it is only obtained after stimulation of the cervix, it is advisable to favor positions that favor very deep penetration, allowing you to come and touch this hard wall at the bottom of the vagina... Just thinking about it is unpleasant. So no, thank you, very little for me!

Orgasm of the urethra: ditto! If in his book Le traité des orgasms, Dr. Gérard Leleu states that orgasm can burst in this area, it is because the urethra is surrounded by sensitive sensors and erectile tissue which are the continuity of those of the clitoris... Back to square one!

In short: according to my feelings, there are several intensities and forms of orgasms, but all of them are caused by contact (direct, indirect, correlation, etc.) with the clitoris. All orgasms are clitoral. So, reread our women's tips for masturbating or our cartoon to guide a man in his caresses.

In any case, know that whatever the type of pleasure, pleasure has a very positive influence on our mental and physical health: it causes our brain to secrete many hormones that are very pleasant for our brain: dopamine, serotonin, endorphin, sometimes oxytocin (motivations, feeling of well-being, euphoria, security or attachment). According to Wilhelm Reich, Freud's beloved pupil, orgasm allows us to avoid neurosis where the inhibition of this energy would produce the effects of "stasis" and a "character love".

So, enjoy, guys, enjoy if and how you want, but enjoy without hindrance! And don't forget the most important is find love and practice all you have learned of the orgasm, we have a list of a single person looking for a relationship at the bottom of this page.