For teenage girls, the choice of the first partner is very important. A meaningless experience, lived only on a mechanical or sexual level, without tenderness or even with brutality, can leave bitter disillusionment and even, in some rare cases, lead to frigidity later on. It would, therefore, seem important to know your partner well and not to be content with a passing relationship to throw yourself into the water. It is necessary to give time for a sentimental story to develop (without even talking about love or passion). The first time will be all the more fulfilling as it will have been preceded by long complicity, and by sexual games without penetration which will be in a way a less anxious way to try.